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June 2013
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On Missing Them…

If you find yourself missing someone, make sure what you’re missing is what you actually had, not what you wish it was the whole time. Because the latter is a trap that keeps you from moving forward, happily towards someone else or happily alone. I say this as someone who recently traveled down memory lane about a man I once loved many years ago, realizing that I missed all of the things that I hoped that we would be, not what was. Now what was, was beautiful at times as well, but not nearly as beautiful as the dream I created. And the dream never was. And thus I move on, happily alone.

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